Solar's a great start, OrbitJazz21! As someone who's been living off-grid for a chunk of time now, I've found it invaluable. The initial setup can be pricey, but the long-term savings make it worthwhile. Also, remember it's not only about power. Water is just as important. Rainwater collection systems can be a godsend, as can drilling your own well if your property permits it.
For resources, Homepower.com is a personal favorite. They cover a range of topics from solar power to energy efficient appliances. Books like "The Solar House" by Daniel D. Chiras are quite educational as well.
And don't forget about your community. There might be local groups or workshops where you can connect with others on the same path. Even some agricultural extension services might offer resources on the subject. Have you checked with any local organizations or groups yet?